Many moments in life have an infuriatingly-close-yet-not-here flavor.Read More
Depression, laziness, self-sabotage, fatty thighs, bored at work, lack of drive, procrastination, whatever you may think of as your “flaws” have nothing to do with your inherent worth. No merit is required to become your true self. No matter what “issues” or “weaknesses” you may have you are still flawless deep down.Read More
If you can transform sex, a concept with an incredible amount of baggage and conditioning, into a sacred ritual, you can transform anything.Read More
There is real heartbreak in recognizing that the person you love most doesn’t want to go on the most profound of journeys with you, or at least not in the way you want them to.Read More
You can attend all the classes, workshops, and retreats you can cram into your schedule and have a personal practice that would make a monk proud. However, if you don’t approach all that from a place of deep compassion for yourself and everything you experience, you’re not going to really change.Read More
What you focus on grows and what you ignore fades.Read More
You can fuck the same person thousands of times over the course of a lifetime and never have sex the same way twice.Read More
As with many things, little changes in the bedroom ripple out into dramatic changes in the rest of your life. Once I started slowing down during sex, I took my foot off the gas in the rest of my life and started consciously trying to slow down in as many domains as I could.Read More
Jealousy used to haunt me constantly: Even when I during my sex coach training. So I did a deep-dive into the land of jealousy. What I found floored me.
Most of us understand orgasm as the release of built-up sexual sensation and pleasure. However, orgasm is really the release of any built-up sensation: Including the subtle sensation of energy.Read More
Despite the effort of maintaining a regular practice and diligently using the return-to-the-breath instructions given to me, I just wasn’t getting all the peaceful, relaxing, spiritually enlightening benefits that others described. My mind was still just a squirrel in a box, session after session.Read More
Other than masturbate a lot, cheat, or leave the relationship, what is a high sex drive person in a monogamous relationship to do? It may not seem it sometimes, but your incredible desire is an amazing thing.