You can fuck the same person thousands of times over the course of a lifetime and never have sex the same way twice.Read More
As with many things, little changes in the bedroom ripple out into dramatic changes in the rest of your life. Once I started slowing down during sex, I took my foot off the gas in the rest of my life and started consciously trying to slow down in as many domains as I could.Read More
Jealousy used to haunt me constantly: Even when I during my sex coach training. So I did a deep-dive into the land of jealousy. What I found floored me.
Most of us understand orgasm as the release of built-up sexual sensation and pleasure. However, orgasm is really the release of any built-up sensation: Including the subtle sensation of energy.Read More
Despite the effort of maintaining a regular practice and diligently using the return-to-the-breath instructions given to me, I just wasn’t getting all the peaceful, relaxing, spiritually enlightening benefits that others described. My mind was still just a squirrel in a box, session after session.Read More
Other than masturbate a lot, cheat, or leave the relationship, what is a high sex drive person in a monogamous relationship to do? It may not seem it sometimes, but your incredible desire is an amazing thing.
Like art, religion and spirituality have an entirely different measuring stick than rationality. It doesn’t matter if it is true. It only matters if it is effective.Read More
I force myself (or my partner forces me) to have them because these are exactly the type of conversations that are essential to keeping great sex throughout a long-term relationship. Nothing gets in the way of desire more than the things left unsaid.Read More
Assuming you have one (physically or energetically), when was the last time you paid attention to your womb? When I was 27 I finally spent some quality time with my womb using an advanced version of the technique I describe here. I’ve never been the same.Read More
This slow personal inner change is a form of activism because it works at the very root cause of so much suffering: your emotional wounds. Unless consciously healed, scars from your past will continue to haunt everyone’s present.Read More
Like nature’s ecosystems, each of us needs a different type of romatic/sexual/emotional environment to flourish. Some of us are like desert plants that become their best with just the occasional watering of a fuck-buddy or a one-night stand. Others are rainforest plants that need a deluge of love and connection on a daily basis to thrive. Many are somewhere in between.Read More
“Sex is the most disgusting thing on earth… and you should save it for someone you love.” - The takeaway of many people raised in conservative religious circlesRead More