As with many things, little changes in the bedroom ripple out into dramatic changes in the rest of your life. Once I started slowing down during sex, I took my foot off the gas in the rest of my life and started consciously trying to slow down in as many domains as I could.Read More
Like art, religion and spirituality have an entirely different measuring stick than rationality. It doesn’t matter if it is true. It only matters if it is effective.Read More
This slow personal inner change is a form of activism because it works at the very root cause of so much suffering: your emotional wounds. Unless consciously healed, scars from your past will continue to haunt everyone’s present.Read More
Like nature’s ecosystems, each of us needs a different type of romatic/sexual/emotional environment to flourish. Some of us are like desert plants that become their best with just the occasional watering of a fuck-buddy or a one-night stand. Others are rainforest plants that need a deluge of love and connection on a daily basis to thrive. Many are somewhere in between.Read More
You probably do a lot in the name of wellness and health. Exercising, eating well, getting enough sleep, etc. But even the biggest health nuts are probably missing out on one of the best things you can possibly do to benefit yourself. By having a regular self-pleasure (aka masturbation) practice you can massively improve your sexual experience and keep it that way for life.Read More
Have you ever had an energy orgasm? Chakra-gasm? Full-body orgasm? By incorporating your sexual energy into sex you can discover a whole array of new orgasmic experiences.
“Sexual energy” may sound a bit New Age-y to some, but we commonly refer to this concept in our culture. We use phrases like “feeling a spark”, “having chemistry”, “feeling magnetic”, and “turn-on” to describe it. It’s that mysterious, sparkly quality that underlies sexual attraction and intercourse.Read More
It can be fun to incorporate toys and other outside elements, but they are by no means essential. There are many ways to enhance your sexual experience that are totally free and have no side-effects.
You were born with everything that you need for incredibly amazing sex. There are of course many components to this, so I’ve broken it down into a handful of key ingredients. This article will introduce just three.
The purpose isn’t to “not think.” The purpose is to train your brain to flip a U-turn, to recognize when you are getting distracted, turn around, and refocus.
This obviously is great training for a hyper-distracted world. However, the results of this exercise can be much more powerful than that. The experiential knowledge that lays “between-the-lines” is that…
Being penetrated is a powerful way to open your heart and your soul. Surrender and let yourself be fucked open. Let your partner fuck every part of who you are and let every vulnerable part show. Drown in your own pleasure and give permission to your orgasm to rip you apart. Cry, scream, laugh, and express every emotion that arises.Read More