I force myself (or my partner forces me) to have them because these are exactly the type of conversations that are essential to keeping great sex throughout a long-term relationship. Nothing gets in the way of desire more than the things left unsaid.Read More
This slow personal inner change is a form of activism because it works at the very root cause of so much suffering: your emotional wounds. Unless consciously healed, scars from your past will continue to haunt everyone’s present.Read More
When you treat sex as a sanctuary it becomes more than just periodic release. All emotions and experiences can be welcome there. Anger, sadness, joy, grief, tears, laughter… all have a place in the bedroom.
When you allow your emotions to manifest physically, they flow through you. They don’t stagnate in your heart and affect your life. The limits to your healing and growth are defined by the limits of what you let yourself feel. By surrendering deeply to your feelings, you develop the capacity to heal yourself from whatever comes your way.Read More
It can be fun to incorporate toys and other outside elements, but they are by no means essential. There are many ways to enhance your sexual experience that are totally free and have no side-effects.
You were born with everything that you need for incredibly amazing sex. There are of course many components to this, so I’ve broken it down into a handful of key ingredients. This article will introduce just three.
Some of the experiences you had years ago might still be held in your body and show up during sex. Experiences like painful sex in your early encounters, shaming of your sexuality by religion, or being yelled at for masturbating as a child can color your sexual experience today. This is of course compounded for survivors of sexual assault. Just one moment of threatened sexual assault can hamper a person’s sexuality for years after.Read More