Posts tagged safety
Choose Your Own Adventure: Relationship Styles and Spiritual Growth

Like nature’s ecosystems, each of us needs a different type of romatic/sexual/emotional environment to flourish. Some of us are like desert plants that become their best with just the occasional watering of a fuck-buddy or a one-night stand. Others are rainforest plants that need a deluge of love and connection on a daily basis to thrive. Many are somewhere in between.

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Sex as Sanctuary

When you treat sex as a sanctuary it becomes more than just periodic release. All emotions and experiences can be welcome there. Anger, sadness, joy, grief, tears, laughter… all have a place in the bedroom.

When you allow your emotions to manifest physically, they flow through you. They don’t stagnate in your heart and affect your life. The limits to your healing and growth are defined by the limits of what you let yourself feel. By surrendering deeply to your feelings, you develop the capacity to heal yourself from whatever comes your way.

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