What you focus on grows and what you ignore fades.Read More
You can fuck the same person thousands of times over the course of a lifetime and never have sex the same way twice.Read More
As with many things, little changes in the bedroom ripple out into dramatic changes in the rest of your life. Once I started slowing down during sex, I took my foot off the gas in the rest of my life and started consciously trying to slow down in as many domains as I could.Read More
Jealousy used to haunt me constantly: Even when I during my sex coach training. So I did a deep-dive into the land of jealousy. What I found floored me.
Most of us understand orgasm as the release of built-up sexual sensation and pleasure. However, orgasm is really the release of any built-up sensation: Including the subtle sensation of energy.Read More
Despite the effort of maintaining a regular practice and diligently using the return-to-the-breath instructions given to me, I just wasn’t getting all the peaceful, relaxing, spiritually enlightening benefits that others described. My mind was still just a squirrel in a box, session after session.Read More
Other than masturbate a lot, cheat, or leave the relationship, what is a high sex drive person in a monogamous relationship to do? It may not seem it sometimes, but your incredible desire is an amazing thing.
I force myself (or my partner forces me) to have them because these are exactly the type of conversations that are essential to keeping great sex throughout a long-term relationship. Nothing gets in the way of desire more than the things left unsaid.Read More
“Sex is the most disgusting thing on earth… and you should save it for someone you love.” - The takeaway of many people raised in conservative religious circlesRead More
“If only they would get with the program then I could experience chakra-gasms, universal orgasms, sex magic, and ultimately enlightenment.” - Every Would-Be Tantric Practitioner.Read More
Imagine an orgasm that ripples through your entire body like a tidal wave of gold. Imagine pleasure obliterating your sense of self and launching you into the cosmos. You simultaneously feel like you’re flying and don’t feel your body anymore…Read More
You probably do a lot in the name of wellness and health. Exercising, eating well, getting enough sleep, etc. But even the biggest health nuts are probably missing out on one of the best things you can possibly do to benefit yourself. By having a regular self-pleasure (aka masturbation) practice you can massively improve your sexual experience and keep it that way for life.Read More