I force myself (or my partner forces me) to have them because these are exactly the type of conversations that are essential to keeping great sex throughout a long-term relationship. Nothing gets in the way of desire more than the things left unsaid.Read More
“Sex is the most disgusting thing on earth… and you should save it for someone you love.” - The takeaway of many people raised in conservative religious circlesRead More
“If only they would get with the program then I could experience chakra-gasms, universal orgasms, sex magic, and ultimately enlightenment.” - Every Would-Be Tantric Practitioner.Read More
Imagine an orgasm that ripples through your entire body like a tidal wave of gold. Imagine pleasure obliterating your sense of self and launching you into the cosmos. You simultaneously feel like you’re flying and don’t feel your body anymore…Read More
You probably do a lot in the name of wellness and health. Exercising, eating well, getting enough sleep, etc. But even the biggest health nuts are probably missing out on one of the best things you can possibly do to benefit yourself. By having a regular self-pleasure (aka masturbation) practice you can massively improve your sexual experience and keep it that way for life.Read More
When you treat sex as a sanctuary it becomes more than just periodic release. All emotions and experiences can be welcome there. Anger, sadness, joy, grief, tears, laughter… all have a place in the bedroom.
When you allow your emotions to manifest physically, they flow through you. They don’t stagnate in your heart and affect your life. The limits to your healing and growth are defined by the limits of what you let yourself feel. By surrendering deeply to your feelings, you develop the capacity to heal yourself from whatever comes your way.Read More
Have you ever had an energy orgasm? Chakra-gasm? Full-body orgasm? By incorporating your sexual energy into sex you can discover a whole array of new orgasmic experiences.
“Sexual energy” may sound a bit New Age-y to some, but we commonly refer to this concept in our culture. We use phrases like “feeling a spark”, “having chemistry”, “feeling magnetic”, and “turn-on” to describe it. It’s that mysterious, sparkly quality that underlies sexual attraction and intercourse.Read More
It can be fun to incorporate toys and other outside elements, but they are by no means essential. There are many ways to enhance your sexual experience that are totally free and have no side-effects.
You were born with everything that you need for incredibly amazing sex. There are of course many components to this, so I’ve broken it down into a handful of key ingredients. This article will introduce just three.
Some of the experiences you had years ago might still be held in your body and show up during sex. Experiences like painful sex in your early encounters, shaming of your sexuality by religion, or being yelled at for masturbating as a child can color your sexual experience today. This is of course compounded for survivors of sexual assault. Just one moment of threatened sexual assault can hamper a person’s sexuality for years after.Read More
Let’s have a bird’s and the bees talk 2.0. As many people in the LGBTQ community may tell you, sex is WAY MORE than just penis-in-vagina. There are of course commonly known alternatives such as oral, anal, and manual sex. There is a whole realm of sex that doesn’t involve genitalia at all.Read More
Being penetrated is a powerful way to open your heart and your soul. Surrender and let yourself be fucked open. Let your partner fuck every part of who you are and let every vulnerable part show. Drown in your own pleasure and give permission to your orgasm to rip you apart. Cry, scream, laugh, and express every emotion that arises.Read More
From natural elements such as water or fire to deities such as Athena or Lakshmi, if you can connect to something on a deep, energetic level you can make love to it.
Sex is an inherently energetic experience and incorporating additional flavors of energy is a natural fit. Bringing a new energetic signature or essence into a sexual episode launches you into a whole new realm of experience and pleasure.Read More