Like art, religion and spirituality have an entirely different measuring stick than rationality. It doesn’t matter if it is true. It only matters if it is effective.Read More
This slow personal inner change is a form of activism because it works at the very root cause of so much suffering: your emotional wounds. Unless consciously healed, scars from your past will continue to haunt everyone’s present.Read More
Like nature’s ecosystems, each of us needs a different type of romatic/sexual/emotional environment to flourish. Some of us are like desert plants that become their best with just the occasional watering of a fuck-buddy or a one-night stand. Others are rainforest plants that need a deluge of love and connection on a daily basis to thrive. Many are somewhere in between.Read More
“Sex is the most disgusting thing on earth… and you should save it for someone you love.” - The takeaway of many people raised in conservative religious circlesRead More
“If only they would get with the program then I could experience chakra-gasms, universal orgasms, sex magic, and ultimately enlightenment.” - Every Would-Be Tantric Practitioner.Read More
Imagine an orgasm that ripples through your entire body like a tidal wave of gold. Imagine pleasure obliterating your sense of self and launching you into the cosmos. You simultaneously feel like you’re flying and don’t feel your body anymore…Read More
Stories are beliefs, ideologies, and opinions that you tell yourself over and over. We tell them to ourselves and each other to express something, usually pain, but they don’t carry real wisdom. Stories may be factually true or not true, but no matter what they do not serve you. You can get so caught up in the details you can’t let go.Read More
Have you ever had an energy orgasm? Chakra-gasm? Full-body orgasm? By incorporating your sexual energy into sex you can discover a whole array of new orgasmic experiences.
“Sexual energy” may sound a bit New Age-y to some, but we commonly refer to this concept in our culture. We use phrases like “feeling a spark”, “having chemistry”, “feeling magnetic”, and “turn-on” to describe it. It’s that mysterious, sparkly quality that underlies sexual attraction and intercourse.Read More
The purpose isn’t to “not think.” The purpose is to train your brain to flip a U-turn, to recognize when you are getting distracted, turn around, and refocus.
This obviously is great training for a hyper-distracted world. However, the results of this exercise can be much more powerful than that. The experiential knowledge that lays “between-the-lines” is that…
From natural elements such as water or fire to deities such as Athena or Lakshmi, if you can connect to something on a deep, energetic level you can make love to it.
Sex is an inherently energetic experience and incorporating additional flavors of energy is a natural fit. Bringing a new energetic signature or essence into a sexual episode launches you into a whole new realm of experience and pleasure.Read More