The REAL Purpose of Meditation (Hint: It’s not to “stop thinking”)

The purpose isn’t to “not think.” The purpose is to train your brain to flip a U-turn, to recognize when you are getting distracted, turn around, and refocus.

This obviously is great training for a hyper-distracted world. However, the results of this exercise can be much more powerful than that. The experiential knowledge that lays “between-the-lines” is that…

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The Ultimate Cockblocker: Sexual Repression

Some of the experiences you had years ago might still be held in your body and show up during sex. Experiences like painful sex in your early encounters, shaming of your sexuality by religion, or being yelled at for masturbating as a child can color your sexual experience today. This is of course compounded for survivors of sexual assault. Just one moment of threatened sexual assault can hamper a person’s sexuality for years after.

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Divine Orgasm: How to Make Love to a God/dess

From natural elements such as water or fire to deities such as Athena or Lakshmi, if you can connect to something on a deep, energetic level you can make love to it.

Sex is an inherently energetic experience and incorporating additional flavors of energy is a natural fit. Bringing a new energetic signature or essence into a sexual episode launches you into a whole new realm of experience and pleasure.

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What is Sacred Sexuality?

The primary way of having some type of spiritual experience is to connect to the Divine in some way. More traditional ways of doing this are things like prayer, ritual, and fasting. But, if everything is sacred, than anything you do can potentially bring this connection. This includes things like folding laundry, scrubbing toilets, going to work, sitting in traffic, and having an orgasm.

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