Like nature’s ecosystems, each of us needs a different type of romatic/sexual/emotional environment to flourish. Some of us are like desert plants that become their best with just the occasional watering of a fuck-buddy or a one-night stand. Others are rainforest plants that need a deluge of love and connection on a daily basis to thrive. Many are somewhere in between.Read More
“Sex is the most disgusting thing on earth… and you should save it for someone you love.” - The takeaway of many people raised in conservative religious circlesRead More
“If only they would get with the program then I could experience chakra-gasms, universal orgasms, sex magic, and ultimately enlightenment.” - Every Would-Be Tantric Practitioner.Read More
Imagine an orgasm that ripples through your entire body like a tidal wave of gold. Imagine pleasure obliterating your sense of self and launching you into the cosmos. You simultaneously feel like you’re flying and don’t feel your body anymore…Read More
Tantra, (the adjective form is “Tantric”, like “Tantric Sex”) is a wisdom tradition that makes you blossom into the best possible version of yourself. When you practice Tantra, your soul expands.Read More
Through my spiritual journey, I was able to see the sacred beauty in just about everything… except for the body I saw in the mirror. I feared that I might never be free of this war with myself.Read More
Nobody has ever received a drop of sexual pleasure from anything outside of their own body. No sex toy or partner has given you anything. Things outside your body can definitely stimulate you, but it’s ultimately your brain, your genitals, your nervous system, that is giving you the pleasurable experiences.Read More
You probably do a lot in the name of wellness and health. Exercising, eating well, getting enough sleep, etc. But even the biggest health nuts are probably missing out on one of the best things you can possibly do to benefit yourself. By having a regular self-pleasure (aka masturbation) practice you can massively improve your sexual experience and keep it that way for life.Read More
Stories are beliefs, ideologies, and opinions that you tell yourself over and over. We tell them to ourselves and each other to express something, usually pain, but they don’t carry real wisdom. Stories may be factually true or not true, but no matter what they do not serve you. You can get so caught up in the details you can’t let go.Read More
When you treat sex as a sanctuary it becomes more than just periodic release. All emotions and experiences can be welcome there. Anger, sadness, joy, grief, tears, laughter… all have a place in the bedroom.
When you allow your emotions to manifest physically, they flow through you. They don’t stagnate in your heart and affect your life. The limits to your healing and growth are defined by the limits of what you let yourself feel. By surrendering deeply to your feelings, you develop the capacity to heal yourself from whatever comes your way.Read More
Pleasure is an incredibly nourishing sensation to our bodies. To experience this for yourself give the following meditation a try.Read More
Have you ever had an energy orgasm? Chakra-gasm? Full-body orgasm? By incorporating your sexual energy into sex you can discover a whole array of new orgasmic experiences.
“Sexual energy” may sound a bit New Age-y to some, but we commonly refer to this concept in our culture. We use phrases like “feeling a spark”, “having chemistry”, “feeling magnetic”, and “turn-on” to describe it. It’s that mysterious, sparkly quality that underlies sexual attraction and intercourse.Read More